The Visitation is a reminder that our quality of presence with others is more important than what we do with others.
In A Manual of Marianist Spirituality, Fr. Quentin Hakenewerth, SM, defines presence as “being with someone in a way that makes a difference.” This difference may be seemingly insignificant, or it may be readily perceived. Still, our presence will be felt if it is of high quality.
Mary was pregnant with Jesus Christ when she went to visit her cousin. Their presence was felt not just by Elizabeth but also by Elizabeth’s son, John the Baptist. When our presence is best felt, we allow Jesus Christ, who is within us, to come out and be noticed. Those whom we may not sense may also sense this same presence from us, that of Jesus Christ within. Let us become great Christ-bearers so others may know Him from
knowing us.
For further reflection on the Visitation and this notion of presence, we recommend the following resources:
- “Feast of the Visitation (May 31): To Share the Secret,” a free e-publication on our website, originally published by New Melleray Abbey, a Cistercian Abbey in Dubuque, Iowa, offers a reflection and questions on the scriptural encounter of the Visitation.
- Sharing Our Marianist Stories, episode 23, “The Quality of Our Presence,” with Rob Brodrick, encourages listeners to embody the Marianist Charism in a way that inspires others.
- Sharing Our Marianist Stories, episode 24, “Our Marianist Presence,” with Fr. Quentin Hakenwerth, SM, expounds upon Fr. Chaminade’s notion that “the quality of our presence is more important than our work.”
Published in the May 2025 NACMS Newsletter.